You Are A Wild and Beautiful Thing, It’s About Time You Started Loving Yourself

You Are A Wild and
Beautif
“You yourself, as much as anybody in
the entire universe deserve your love
and affection.” -Buddha
Falling in love with yourself first doesn’t make
you vain, it makes you indestructible. We often
forget how important it is to take a break from
the world and ask ourselves what we want. We
are students, classmates, lovers, and friends. But who are you
to yourself? If you can’t say the best relationship
you have is the one with the person in the
mirror, it’s time to take a journey on the path to
inner peace.
Loving ourselves is having a deep appreciation
for who we are. It’s accepting our imperfections
and flaws. It’s understanding that we are in
charge of our lives and we can’t really be
successful until we have mastered our
relationships within our own heart.
This isn’t something easy, but it’s also not
impossible. It’s something that takes time. It’s
understanding how to put your needs first before
you can genuinely give love to others. It’s giving
yourself not only what you want, but what you
deserve. It’s walking away from something or
someone that doesn’t add to your life anymore.
It’s forgiving those who have hurt you and
remembering there are beginnings in endings.
Find little moments throughout your day where
your objective is to just be. Shut your phone off
and pick up a book. Disconnect from the the
world around you and just breathe. Become in
touch with your own mind and open your heart
to the world around you. It’s incredible what
will come your way once you realize you are
truly unstoppable.

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Study For Your Life

Ten Essential
Success Habits
(Speed) Learning
I’ve seen this habit recurring
time and time again. The
wealthiest people of the world
are avid learners. In an
interview , Warren Buffet and Bill
Gates were asked if they could
have one superpower in the
world, what would it be? They
both argued that being the
worlds fastest reader would be
HUGE Why is it so effective?
Reading allows us to skip
(partially) the process of trial and
error by simulating the future in
our mind, based on the
knowledge we’ve acquired from
other peoples’ mistakes. Why
make your own when you can
learn so much from others?
It allows us to “stand on the
shoulders of giants” by
acquiring information that
enables us to avoid many
failures.
How to start? Start by reading
15 pages every day (non-fiction)

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Study For Your Life

Ten Essential
Success Habits
(Speed) Learning
I’ve seen this habit recurring
time and time again. The
wealthiest people of the world
are avid learners. In an
interview , Warren Buffet and Bill
Gates were asked if they could
have one superpower in the
world, what would it be? They
both argued that being the
worlds fastest reader would be
HUGE Why is it so effective?
Reading allows us to skip
(partially) the process of trial and
error by simulating the future in
our mind, based on the
knowledge we’ve acquired from
other peoples’ mistakes. Why
make your own when you can
learn so much from others?
It allows us to “stand on the
shoulders of giants” by
acquiring information that
enables us to avoid many
failures.
How to start? Start by reading
15 pages every day (non-fiction)

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The people you’ll see in banks

The MAT customer: He comes to the bank with mat/bed/pillow for everyone to sleep on (delaying us for more than 45mins) with huge amount of money he has brought in for deposits and you start blaming yourself, God why did I queue behind dis man? he makes people with lesser amount of money like 3k depositors or withdrawals start asking God why do bad things happen to good people. You go start to beg,bros abeg na 3k I wan pay, let dem attend to me.
2. The Pen Borrowers: They are always in the bank, common pen dey won’t have. This people are very dangerous, once you lend them the pen, you might find it difficult to identify them. Once they ask “can I have your pen”, believe me, that is the last time you will see that pen.
3. The I Dey Your Back Team: Immediately they enter the bank, even before taking the slips (withdrawal or deposit) all they do is to know the last person and you hear them saying, I am @ your back, if care is not taken 8 people can tell you “I dey your back”, then at the end of the day they cause confusion (na me dey hin back , I don’t tell am, I was here before u blah blah blah.
4. The no protocol team: These kind of people don’t obey the “first come first serve slogan”, they are mouthed in the bank, immediately they come in they just walk up to the cashier or manager, he asks them to sit down and within 5 mins they have completed there transactions while you still dey there dey look like mumu for queue. (God punish devil)
5. The Bank Door rejectees: These people will always have a problem with the bank door, then u see dem removing their belts,car keys,mobile phones etc and yet the machine keeps shooting “please go back” my bros next time come to bank Unclad,he go allow u in.
6. The slip wasters : These kind of people can waste slip for Africa, to fill the withdrawal slip or deposit slip na jamb questions, u see them canceling, tearing ,squeezing and taking another one. To write common 3780 naira in words na gobe.
7. The exile men: These people usually behave like dem no dey this world since 2 years, they will always be asking for today’s date,even after telling them the correct date, they will ask someone else again. I tire for these people.
So which group you dey?